ABOUT

I spent almost 20 years living and working abroad in Asia, Southeast Asia, East Africa, and Latin America before becoming an ordained, nonsectarian minister, graduating from the People House Nonsectarian Ministerial Training program in Denver, Colorado.  

Because of this international immersion and experience, I have deep respect, knowledge and understanding for cultures, cultural constructs, and major world religions including Hinduism, Buddhism, Islam, Protestantism, Catholicism, and Animism, and thus is able to provide nonjudgmental, holistic spiritual support to people of various faith traditions as well as to those who adhere to no faith tradition.

Before becoming an internationally published author and an ordained minister, I was a project manager on multi-million dollar construction projects in the US and continued in this field when we as a family moved to Peshawar, Pakistan, where I was a consultant for post-conflict reconstruction projects in Afghanistan. A trailing spouse, I traveled the world with my family through my husband’s employment with CBM, a nonprofit headquartered in Germany. My writing skills landed me jobs with international, English daily print newspapers, The Jakarta Post and The News, in Indonesia and Mexico, respectively. With my MA in Environmental Studies from Boston University, my articles and op-ed pieces on local and global environmental issues were published internationally.

Past studies include postgraduate studies from the University of South Africa in Theological Ethics/Ecological Justice, focusing on the spiritual and physical interconnectedness of all things. I have a bachelor's in Engineering Technology from the University of Nebraska.


My husband and I split our time between Tucson and Flagstaff, Arizona, near our adult sons and their families.

I served a god that didn’t exist …


My published book, To Travel Well, Travel Light is my story of the joys and pitfalls of living and working abroad for many years with children in tow. Along with my husband, Mike, and our two young sons we moved to Peshawar, Pakistan, to help our Afghan friends rebuild their country after the Soviet departure in 1992. 


A USAID program had brought educated young Afghan men to the Midwest to instruct them in public administration. We befriended them through a community friendship program, and these mujahideen persuaded our adventurous family to move to Peshawar.


I worked for an Afghan NGO as a consultant for construction projects inside Afghanistan, and Mike administered the Afghan Eye Hospital. Our older and outgoing son finished high school in Peshawar through a university distance-learning program and in the process learned to hang glide, met young people from all over the world, and grew fluent in the Pashtu language. Our younger son learned British English and had to be reminded by his mom and dad that in the US, an eraser is not called a “rubber.”


The cover shows me in a chador. I wore that in public to protect our Afghan refugee friends from ultra-conservative Muslims who would punish Muslims who were suspected of consorting with loose Western women. I didn’t know it at the time of our move, but I was also wrapped in the chador of patriarchal, conservative Christianity, a religion that served a nonexistent male god who kept adult women as children. We lived and worked abroad for 20 years, time enough for me to experience how my resistance to this religion found affirmation in wisdom ancient and modern and to rebuild my values with soul-driven goals. 


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Environmental ethics: Hitched together with the bees

 

By Rev. Mary Coday Edwards

 

Every spring I do battle against cheat grass, an invasive plant species which grows quickly, sucking meager water out of the ground.  Meanwhile, the native grasses and plants slowly making their annual appearance wither and die due to lack of moisture.

 

And when the native plants go, so do the insects, butterflies, reptiles, bees, and small mammals – in short, our ecosystem – that depend on the cyclical flowering and subsequent nutrients produced by this local ecosystem.  Cheat grass lives long enough to kill everything else, whereas all year round native grasses offer protection, shelter, and food, as well as maintain the stability of the soil to keep erosion at bay. When the cheat grass dies after its brief reign of destruction, it leaves only dirt which is blown and washed away.

 

Other than poison, which also kills off an ecosystem, the only way to effectively remove cheat grass is to pull it out by hand, ensuring that the thick, matted root system comes with it.

 

All things are bound together. All things connect. What happens to the Earth happens to the children of the earth. Chief Seattle

 

This annual garden scenario divulges much about me:

·   My values, which are defined as my principles and my judgment of what is important: i.e., diversity, a healthy ecosystem, and that there is no room in nature or in our social systems for bullies.

·   My morals, defined as reflecting what I believe to be right or wrong: cheat grass’ bullying behavior is wrong and thus everyone should pull out the cheat grass! (This has now become a moral imperative for me – which I’d like to impose on all my neighbors.)

·   Lastly, my ethics. Ethics examine and give a reason “why” behind my moral imperative. I’m calling this quantum ethics, as my why is based on what I believe quantum physics is telling us about the fabric of reality, focusing on our interconnectedness based on the EPR (Einstein-Podolsky-Rosen) Effect.

 

The EPR Effect posits a reality where at the subatomic level, the universe is in relationship. Physicists use various terms to express this concept including mutual entanglement and interconnectedness. Einstein referred to this entanglement as “spooky action at a distance”.  Physicist John Polkinghorne calls this interconnectedness a “… deep-seated relationality present in the fundamental structure of the physical world” (1).

 

Austrian quantum physicist Anton Zeilinger claims that we can build an ontology, or a way the world is, of relations, and that “one consequence of this entanglement is that relations are more important than individuals” (2). In other words, we shift from focusing on the individual to focusing on the relationship between individuals.

 

Not random, but participating in patterns

 

Out of quantum physics have developed system laws, where elements adjust their properties to those of the others; none can be modified without causing a modification to the others. Ian Barbour said that the being of any entity is comprised not just of its individual parts, but primarily by its relationships and its participation in more inclusive patterns (3).

 

Indigenous cultures, mystics, seers and poets have long known this as the fabric of reality.  Rebecca Adamson says, “The indigenous understanding has its basis of spirituality in a recognition of the interconnectedness and interdependence of all living things, a holistic and balanced view of the world.”

 

Philosophers extrapolate from this interconnectedness, saying reality consists of events and relationships rather than of separate substances or particles.

 

However for centuries, the Western worldview has been in the grip of classical physics, where the scientist, and everyone and everything else by association, was seen as separate from its surroundings.  In other words, Asia’s disappearing Aral Sea (see photo), fed by the Amu Darya and Syr Darya Rivers whose waters were siphoned off to irrigate cotton in the desert so we could purchase unlimited t-shirts, wouldn’t impact us living on the other side of the planet. And it has, of course, in the form of desertification, localized climate change, and subsequent starvation and refugees.

 

And what about the nonphysical world? How does our lack of compassion and love – our meanness of spirit – impact our own energy and the life around us?

                                                                                  

The mystics and poets have spoken of this for centuries. In this last century, scientists have proven it. For me personally, it’s a daily spiritual exercise to mindfully remember that “In nature [of which I am a member of], nothing exists alone,” as Rachel Carson wrote (4).

 

Hitched together with the bees

 

But our postmodernism society views any truth as suspect, as a process of social construction, and therefore, reality/truth is defined by those with the social power. Be skeptical of what I’ve written. However, for me there’s enough evidence via the physicists and mystics to support an interconnected world, one built on relationships. This is a piece of my ethics, this helps inform my daily choices.

 

And because my compassion/love is so imperfect, this ethic also serves me when I’m in the grip of my selfishness and self-centeredness. It’s in my best interests to pull out that cheat grass and keep those bees pollinating my food supply.

 

At the beginning of the 20th century, Einstein's Nobel Prize winning discoveries were just beginning to ripple upon humanity's consciousness. Ahead of his time, John Muir, father of our national parks, penned in 1911, "When we try to pick out anything by itself, we find it hitched to everything else in the Universe."

 

In other words, I’m hitched together with the bees.

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Note 1: Polkinghorne, J.C. Quantum Theory: A Very Short Introduction. Oxford: Oxford University Press, 2002; pg. 80.

Note 2: Zeilinger, Anton. “Quantum Physics: Ontology or Epistemology?,” in The Trinity and an Entangled World: Relationality in Physical Science and Theology, ed. John C. Polkinghorne. Grand Rapids, MI; W.B Eerdmans Publishing, 2010), 35-36.

Note 3: Barbour, Ian. Religion and Science: Historical and Contemporary Issues. New York: Harper Collins Publishers, 2000; pg. 175.

Note 4: Carson, Rachel. Silent Spring.  Houghton Mifflin, 1962; pg. 51.

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Photo: Orphaned ship in former Aral Sea, near Aral, Kazakhstan, from Wikipedia Commons

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